You have to look of what I said in context of our discussion, I am not speaking about you in particular but in general in the case of most people:
i understand that
in a way, but when these things are said it is ultimately about me as an unbeliever, is it not? i make no apology for my point in saying that it is impossible for you to calibrate in your understanding that you can be MORE happier and at peace than an unbeliever because of your faith.
i'm not saying you don't have it, i'm saying there is no way for you to actually reason with any logical conclusion you can be more at peace than i.
if i can say there is no way i can have more peace than you, how could you say you have more peace then me...?
like most people would be more contented if they had 1 million dollars in the bank, even so most people would be more contented if they had the gift of the Holy Spirit in their heart.
Love you sister, you make the best of me come out.
maybe you have overlooked the eastern philosophy's of enlightenment and the search for inner peace...all without the assistance from the god in the bible. i don't believe money can give anyone inner peace...
and there are plenty of other non believers who would say the same thing.
life experience has brought me to that conclusion.
this is what i was responding to...
I would like to demostrate to you that belief in God is not a self-delusion
would it be fair to say you believe faith in god would allow for the believer to feel MORE peace, MORE happier than someone without faith in god?
Yes because the believer is fully assured that death is not the end. Olso a true believer can rationalise the possible difficulties in a relationship knowing that he or she is not to blame, and if he or she was to blame, he will say sorry a thousand time, in other words he or she knows how to repent. It becomes the unforgiving party lack of grace for the ongoing turmoil. Therefore giving him more peace and happiness.
No what I am saing is, that I as a believer have the tools to deal with the adversity of life, But God's grace is also extended to umbelievers, however it is more prevalent in believers: For we believers can repent of our errors without regrets.
So we are at peace with ourselves, with God and with the world.
With hopeless I mean you have no hope of eternal life.
hope for eternal life. if i may be so bold and i do not mean to disrespect you in any way nor am i insinuating you are capable of doing this.
but what is the difference between this line of thinking and that of a suicide bomber?
you did say..
For we believers can repent of our errors without regrets.
So we are at peace with ourselves, with God and with the world.
if that were true and a person with such a strong conviction, as in the case of a suicide bomber, believing their faith was the right faith, what's to stop someone from doing such a horrendous act?
you do realize that in the name of religion people do things they would not normally had they figured it out for themselves.
my own mom stayed married to an abusive man, mentally not physically, for 52 yrs thinking that god will change him. she is 74 and is now finally getting what i have been saying for years...divorce him. the bible, her upbringing, her faith all pointed towards the wrongness of divorce...
i'm not only blaming her faith in god for wasting her life, because he actually controlled her with the use of fear mongering...she comes from an old way of life in cuba where women were nothing unless they were married and had children...
i could go on and on about her, but think of the amount of fear she understood as faith in god for this hope her husband would change.
listen brother, i get your compassion. i know you want to show me the light, and i appreciate it, really i do. i just wanted to make a case for the reason unbelievers understand believers as those who are morally superior, when all along in the here and now we are just that- brothers and sisters.