If you have to choose between two types of women (rebellion vs obedience)

[Godobeyer]

Say, "Have a nice trip. I will be here when you get back!"
You don't really get the partnership thing, do you, Godobeyer? Part of a partnership is giving your partner the space and time to do what they want and go where they want.

What is the limitation of space and time ?
i mean for exemples :
how about if she want to wear very sexy clothes in road ?
If it's about she will have a rendez-vous with someone ?

 

[Godobeyer]

If I plan to be gone for an extended period of time, such as on a vacation, yes I let my family know. This is not obedience, this is basic respect. I do not want them to worry that I have been kidnapped or murdered. In the course of my day, I generally do not tell my husband everywhere I'm going unless it's somewhere out of my general routine. If I'm going out with friends, I'll let him know I won't be home at my usual time. What I don't do is ask his permission. What he doesn't do is presume permission is his to give or not give as he sees fit.

If he disagree with your trip , because he see a risk or jeolous about you, so you goes even If he will be angry ?

 

[Politesse]

Voted for the rebellion wife. If she believes in owing "obedience" to another human being, she's not my type.

 

[Marisa]

If he disagree with your trip , because he see a risk or jeolous about you, so you goes even If he will be angry ?

I've already stated that I do not tolerate a jealous man. Why do you keep asking?

 

[Godobeyer]

I've already stated that I do not tolerate a jealous man. Why do you keep asking?

I forget that

just to know , is there a problem to ask ?

 

[Marisa]

I forget that

just to know , is there a problem to ask ?

No, but the question gets old when it's repeated. No worries, though, it happens. You're talking to a lot of people here.

Out of curiosity, has anyone yet agreed with your interpretation of "obedience" and "rebellion"? Do you agree that the we are operating under different definitions of those words?

 

[Godobeyer]

No, but the question gets old when it's repeated. No worries, though, it happens. You're talking to a lot of people here.

Out of curiosity, has anyone yet agreed with your interpretation of "obedience" and "rebellion"? Do you agree that the we are operating under different definitions of those words?

ok

I don't know if there someone agree with my view, for sure hard for once to live with rebellion person ,especially partner .whatever gender or age .

I post exemple for people to check their view about "rebellious"

 

[Godobeyer]

Voted for the rebellion wife. If she believes in owing "obedience" to another human being, she's not my type.

give us exemples for her rebellions , and what is the limit of her rebellion ?

 

[Marisa]

ok

I don't know if there someone agree with my view, for sure hard for once to live with rebellion person ,especially partner .whatever gender or age .

I post exemple for people to check their view about "rebellious"

Well if you expect your partner to do as she's told, then yes it would be hard to live with that. Probably as hard as it is to live with a man who expects to have the final word in any conversation. It's not any more fun to be dismissed than it is to be ignored.

 

[Godobeyer]

Well if you expect your partner to do as she's told, then yes it would be hard to live with that. Probably as hard as it is to live with a man who expects to have the final word in any conversation. It's not any more fun to be dismissed than it is to be ignored.

Where is problem IF husband ask his partner (wife) to make dinner for him or clean her home ?

 

[Parsimony]

Godobeyer, what would you do if your wife did not do something that you asked of her? Would the consequences be more extreme than if your wife asked you to do something and you did not do it?

 

[Politesse]

give us exemples for her rebellions , and what is the limit of her rebellion ?

I don't give orders to people unless they work for me. My romantic partners aren't employees. So I don't see how "my" woman could rebel at all.

 

[Koldo]

Hello all


I am just want to know your opinion about if you want to marry a woman , your have just two choices ,

1- the first one : is very obedience , and calm , sensitive ( obedience )

2 -second one is rebellion , reject your requests ,she had strong personality than you ,(rebellion )


+ bonus questions : what is your type you prefer to marry ( i mean the caracteres of your futur woman in mental not body) ?

That's a weird question. It implies that I am the top authority in the relationship. That's not what I seek. I want marry someone as an equal.

 

[Thana]

Hello all


I am just want to know your opinion about if you want to marry a woman , your have just two choices ,

1- the first one : is very obedience , and calm , sensitive ( obedience )

2 -second one is rebellion , reject your requests ,she had strong personality than you ,(rebellion )


+ bonus questions : what is your type you prefer to marry ( i mean the caracteres of your futur woman in mental not body) ?

It's kind of scary how your idea of 'rebellion' is a wife being an individual and doing her own thing without feeling the need to get her husbands permission.

 

[Godobeyer]

Godobeyer, what would you do if your wife did not do something that you asked of her? Would the consequences be more extreme than if your wife asked you to do something and you did not do it?

That's depend for the kind of request , and it's effective on our partership life .

for exemple ? .

 

[Godobeyer]

I don't give orders to people unless they work for me. My romantic partners aren't employees. So I don't see how "my" woman could rebel at all.

seems had different view about definition of rebellious wife .

For me if my wife dresse sexy dresse and goes out to seduce people , that's rebelious wife.

For you if your wife goes to visit her ex-boyfriend (you disagree), because she missed him , i suppose that rebellious ?

 

[Godobeyer]

It's kind of scary how your idea of 'rebellion' is a wife being an individual and doing her own thing without feeling the need to get her husbands permission.

That's a weird question. It implies that I am the top authority in the relationship. That's not what I seek. I want marry someone as an equal.

my OP is missed more details

I just elaborate my definition to " rebellion" and obedient" wife for me

#85

 

[Sakeenah]

Hello all


I am just want to know your opinion about if you want to marry a woman , your have just two choices ,

1- the first one : is very obedience , and calm , sensitive ( obedience )

2 -second one is rebellion , reject your requests ,she had strong personality than you ,(rebellion )


+ bonus questions : what is your type you prefer to marry ( i mean the caracteres of your futur woman in mental not body) ?

Brother in other words an obedient wife is equal to someone who follows you like a sheep? Why not buy a herd of sheep

The only reason a woman would just blindly follow or be obedient is out of fear or because its expected from her culturally. There isn't a single woman who likes to be controlled.

 

[YmirGF]

What is the limitation of space and time ?

Um, I guess if she said she would be gone for a year I'd begin to wonder what was going on. If it was for a holiday, big deal. I'm quite able to take care of myself, so needing a live in servant is not necessary.

how about if she want to wear very sexy clothes in road ?

I would hope she would wear whatever made her feel good.

If it's about she will have a rendez-vous with someone ?

You really don't get all this, do you?

 

[Flankerl]

But guys please, what if she wants to kill someone? What then???