We have constrained free willWhat's this "free" will you speak of? Nonexistent. Our lives are always dictated by the decisions of others. As the web of Wyrd ensnares.
We cannot help what cards we are dealt
But we can choose what to do with them
We can judge a person's character by how they deal with circumstances that are beyond their control
Lots of people have had a tough or abusive childhood, fortunately not me
But that is no excuse for being abusive or horrible to others
It is an explanation not an excuse
There is a saying: you can only blame your parents until you're twenty
And Hitler's childhood was typical of that time and place yet he turned out to be extraordinarily evil and most didn't