Is it just me, or is it weird to see non-Muslims deciding what Islam can't ever be?
It's not you, Luis.
There is no doubt in my mind that Islamic culture has a huge problem, and that there are many Muslims who are interpreting and implementing a very warped version of Islam. I despise the treatment of women; I despise the "we are right, you are wrong" attitude. I hate the thought that everyone will go to hell except for Muslims. I despise the idea of eternal hell. I could go on, but I think you get the picture.
I honestly think a huge part of the problem is Hadith, its vagueness, and the ability for any schmoe to become a so-called "scholar" and have followers. Since there is no formal clergy, so-to-speak, there is no control over who becomes an Imam, etc. I'm NOT advocating a formal clergy either, as I think it has problems in and of itself.
Every organized religion has its problems, and it's really up to the individuals to change it. I admire stephenw's outlook, and while it may be idealistic to non-Muslims (who are even asking if he eats halaal??) Who friggin' cares? To me, he epitomizes the very vision I have of "true Islam". What he eats or how he prays is really no one's damn business, and is strictly between him and God. I call him a Muslim, and if he calls himself a Muslim and holds his opinions, then who in the hell are we to tell him he's not a "real" Muslim? What in the hell IS a real Muslim?
Unless people are so satisfied in seeing how "bad" all Muslims must be that it's too damn impossible to believe there could be a culture of "good" ones emerging... just a thought.
You all know I'm no apologist for Islam, but when I see a caring, even-tempered, peaceful Muslim, who represents my viewpoints (and quite frankly, the viewpoints of MOST Muslims I know), I'm going to at least acknowledge it.