Friend , I have not always seen eye to eye with you in the past but I believe you have excelled yourself in this post - speaking spirit to spirit ! Well done Sir !
If I may just make a point about 'connecting with God' - is it not HE who does the connecting Jas 1v18 - albeit through our faith. Would you agree ?
The enabler (Holy Spirit) is there, the problem lies in the connecting.
One can not connect where no faith in God is! Case in point: Mat 8:10 When Jesus heard it, he marvelled, and said to them that followed, Verily I say unto you, I have not found so great faith, no, not in Israel.
Mind you, this individuals faith was greater than that of Israel, thus the connection was made because of it and the benefit gotten.
The enabler is God, who enabled Jesus to perform as God, and enabled us via the Holy Spirit's indwelling, to receive the gift of life via Jesus as God through faith.
Blessings, AJ