1: I am not a Christian and I do not believe in Hell, so that problem I have already solved.
2: All people one day will be deceased (dead), that's just how it is on earth. The baby is not born arrogant.
2: So a better question is "why do parents create arrogant children ... and how do they create this arrogance ... do I want to stay arrogant? ... how to undo it"
3: Babies are born nice, so again "why parents mess up big time ... etc. ... how to undo this"
I take full responsibility, so I do not blame God. And here on RF we did not even manage to create a definition of God all agree on. So totally useless to say "God is to blame". Some even say God does not exist, so why blaming such a God, who may not even exist, except in our imagination
But I do agree that life is quite absurd. Born as a perfect baby (in general), the parents, teachers, spouses mess you up completely. And then you can work all life long to fix it.