I see, I have a story that pertains to this. I know a old couple, both in their late 60s, who are very pious people. They also happen to be observant Muslims. They follow their lives according to the tenants to Islam, but what's more they follow their lives as if they are paradigms for society. They attend various charity occassions and the wife happened to be one of the pioneering Presidents for the American Muslim Woman's Association (AMWA). Not only would they help fellow Muslims, they donated to many Churches, worked on improving the status of immigrants arriving in Arizona (there is a large population of Mexicans along with Sudanese and Afghan refugees), as well as building bridges between Muslims and Churches, Police Stations, the Press etc. etc. Safe to say, they are upstanding citizens as well as registered Republicans (lol). Through their life they have met many other non/believers and have engaged in lively debates with them. However, the ones they have convinced are the ones they don't argue with. A woman named Barbara, who predictably wasn't a Muslim prior (except when she was a baby
) worked closely with the Father and became close to the two. She had no knowledge of Islam and never asked the couple about it. One day she asked why they acted so "morally". The man told her it was their duty as Muslims. The woman asked what the duty of Muslims is and the man described being generous, truthful etc. etc. At no time did he state the religious aspects of his faith, seeing as he was at work. However, the woman later converted to Islam because of the example the couple had led. Now, she clearly didn't have any root assumptions (being an atheist after all). She didn't believe in God, had little to no knowledge of Islam, and had no idea of its basic tenants. Yet when she realized what being a Muslim entails, then she embraced the Qur'an. She didn't start off with the assumption that God exists. She looked at the religion of Islam and from the Qur'an and its commandments decided to believe in Allah. Not vice versa.