As a former Christian and evangelical ministry leader, I can say that Christian men, particularly evangelicals, have done this, not non-Christian men. Some Christian men have reprimanded me for not submitting to what they saw as my husband's authority over me, and they have suggested that I should not hold a leadership position in any Christian ministry because doing so would imply that I have authority over men. I was told that, as a Christian woman, I was required to offer my husband sex anytime he desired it, and that if I did not submit to him, he had the right to force me. I've also been told that I should keep my mouth shut when my husband is speaking and never question or criticize him or other men. My husband's grandfather (an outspoken conservative Christian) even told him shortly after we married that he needed to "break my will" if he wanted a good marriage with a submissive wife. I consider myself fortunate that my husband has always treated me as an equal, despite his grandfather's and father's advice on how to interact with me.
My husband and I have been married for thirty years. Finally, I could share more stories of growing up in a conservative Christian family and then marrying into a conservative Christian family. I am, however, pleased to report that my father-in-law backed down after being threatened with estrangement if he didn't treat me with respect. He treats my daughters and I with respect and hasn't said anything about how he believes we should submit to my husband.