totally agreed.I'm old-fashioned when it comes to language and to me "male" and "female" are terms denoting sex
My understanding is that the progressive left and trans activists want us to agree that the term "gender" is a societal construct. My understanding of what they mean seems to closely resemble the ideas of "masculine" and "feminine". So a girl who is a tomboy might be said to behave in masculine ways, and a boy who is effeminate ways might be said to behave in "feminine" ways. And masculine and feminine might be different from culture to culture."Gender" is to me a grammatical term.
What I meant is that if a man, say, has had reassignment surgery, I am quite willing to treat him as a woman. Is that clear?
Yes, I understand! And, fwiw, in some circumstances I'm willing to do the same. But there are situations in which biological sex matters, e.g., women's safe spaces, and in those cases I am not willing to treat a trans woman as a woman.