Ken Brown
Well-Known Member
No, I just brought up bonobo monkeys because you said that is was rare for animals to engage in same-sex behavior.
And no, I am not trying to justify homosexuality just because animals do it, but because monogamous, same-sex behavior is frequently beneficial for both people, and attempting abstinence for life, whether for homosexuals, or for heterosexuals, frequently causes serious physical, and emotional problems.
You use the word "abnormal" a lot, but it is very abnormal for people to practice abstinence for life. So, other than religious based abstinence for life, which often causes serious physical, and emotional problems even for religiously motivated people, you do not have any alternatives for homosexuals. Many things are abnormal, but are beneficial, such as having a high IQ, or being exceptionally good at a sport.
Hi Agnostic, my point about the supposed 1500 animal species that exibit homosexual tendencies, is that they are just a drop in the bucket when you look at ALL animal species. Sure, you are going to find examples of those 1500 animal species, but in relation to ALL of the animal species, one could rightly argue that the "norm" within the animal world is heterosexual sex, not homosexual sex.
Concerning the "abstinence" issue, that really should not come into play if one repents from their homosexual lifestyle, and becomes a heterosexual. Many desires and tendencies found under the control of our flesh can be overcome, but for those desires and tendencies to be overcome, a person MUST recognize those desires and tendencies are wrong. Look, there have been full blown homosexuals that have become heterosexuals as evidenced by what the Apostle Paul said:
1Co 6:9-11
(9) Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of Elohim? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites,
(10) nor covetous, nor thieves, nor drunkards, nor abusive people, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of Elohim.
(11) And such were some of you! But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Master Yeshua and by the Spirit of our Elohim.
So Agnostic, you can be a homosexual or a sodomite and overcome that sin. It just takes a certain faith and belief that one cannot be deceived into thinking they can remain in that sin, and then be allowed entrance into Elohim's Kingdom. Once you are fully convinced that you cannot be deceived into thinking that fornication, idolatry, adultery, homosexuality, sodomy, covetousness, thievery, drunkenness, abusiveness, or swindling can be actively continued in, then one can repent of those sins, and be saved. It just takes making up one's mind to love the Truth and be saved, and come out FROM those evil and sinful ways. KB