to be a sexual person you need sexual thoughts not actions. there are many sexual ppl who may not enjoy sex but have thoughts of desiring someone else in some way which may not end up in penetration.
i speak from experience, while not anymore asexual (i was till i was 24), i prefer to go...
It can be hard to shake an identity we've grown accustomed to. It can make us feel special and unique, especially if we have not decided what we will be next or are comfortable with where we are heading.
You may be outgrowing asexuality, is the common answer.
Total sexuality.
I am sensing...
You are right, all of this is very scary if taken too literally. I generally don't tend to view my relationship in a categorical sense, but if I did..There are times my heart melts because of the closeness and hurts due to distance, there are times I clean the house, imagining I am cleaning for...
This is my theory and why i find it hard to pray for myself..unless health related. it also usually feels odd to advise God, so much he knows my heart! it shows faith that you don't ask
yes I was helping OP explore what they could possibly be feeling. We do not always have sentiments based in logic. God is available to all but, as indicated some have a desire to protect this relationship or feel possesive over it. they are able to healthily explore why and reason behind it. no...
This was explained once to me on the board, i could be explaining poorly. hah
maybe i should have written child, still scary! i will find where it was explained, gimme a min
You know that we may view our relationship with God in different lights. Some people may be protective about God as the feelings evident in a parent and child relationship, that tender feeling of protecting ones deity may be same as if God was their baby. Or possesiveness over God like one has...
I dont see much positivity in these sentiments, what am I missing.. Would you not rather share your love for Sri Krishna with a friend creating a strong bond and fellowship?
Would you not rather them be as happy as you are in His holy prescence?
jai sri krishna
haribol
not at all, i love it! i feel a wonderful and positive energy is here esp since i left.
many times when i dont respond, its not that im not reading. i love all the pages of responses i havent even seen!
@ #5, that is how I feel.
There are times I have changed my religion , making that logical choice by myself to initiate change and do some investigation into other paths.
There are also times like this time when I have felt summoned, a call I couldn't ignore and despite all fears have...
Namashkar Friends,
Here's a fun, sweet thread, I want to get to know more about you guys..
Just curious, five questions:
1) Who is your Ishta-devata? Or the God that you pray most to?
2) What makes this deva most sacred to you?
3) What is your favorite mantra regarding this...
I used to live in San Francisco, now I am in Santa Rosa.
I would love to come...it's the day before my birthday and I was planning on a sweet bday kirtan event, this would be pretty cool though.
Thanks so much for sharing!
Currently, I am looking for a way to celebrate Janmashtami, I may...
I struggled with depression for years, sought counseling, almost had to go to an inpatient program for that an eating disorder/sexual abuse trauma.
i don't know what helped me get better, i think eventually i learned how to cope with it. keeping busy in the right kind of way helped...
To me the Gita is that very sweet book that changed my life, not only did it introduce me to Lord Krishna, it opened the doors to a higher level of bhakti.
I read a copy by Eknath Easwaran that was beautifully written, crystal clear for someone to whom heady philosophical dialogues do not...