I agree with this completely. I grew up in a very strict Christian tradition and was always afraid of Hell. My faith was never complete and I constantly feared eternal damnation. I must have "gotten saved" over 20 times. Finally I looked at my life and realized that this wasn't the way that I wanted to live. I was always judging others, I was always judging myself and I was always afraid and resentful towards God. I decided to look into the matter for myself and decide once and for all if I would follow my parents' God or choose a new path. I read and re-read the Bible and compared it to other sacred texts- the Quran, the book of mormon, the pearl of great price, the doctrine and the covenants, the baghavad gita, and various Zen writings. I kept coming back to Christ's quote in Luke 10:27- " And he answered, You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself. I decided then to make this the building block of my faith. Instead of constant fearI would strive to live a life of constant love. I have failed countless times but no longer fear eternal damnation and no longer see that as the main point of my faith. as I john 4:28 says "There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love." I hope I have answered your question but I look forward to your response.